Guided Scenario Practice (Solo)

Instructions: Choose 1–2 of the scenarios below. Read it carefully, then close your eyes and visualize the moment unfolding. Use the self-dialogue prompts to walk through the scene.

Scenario 1: Conflict at Work

Your coworker blames you for missing a deadline. You feel your heart racing and your face getting hot.

Ask Yourself:

  • What is my breathing like right now? Can I slow it?

  • What “I” statement can I use to describe how I feel?

  • Can I acknowledge my coworker’s stress without accepting blame?

Respond Out Loud or in Writing:
 Practice saying something like:

“I understand this deadline mattered to you. I’m also feeling frustrated. Let’s figure out where the communication broke down.”

Scenario 2: Family Argument

A family member says something disrespectful and your instinct is to snap back.

Ask Yourself:

  • Where do I feel tension in my body?

  • What would I say if I wanted to be heard and keep the peace?

  • What can I say that shows I’m listening—even if I disagree?

Practice Your Response:

“I’m upset by what you said, but I want us to talk about this without yelling. Can we take a moment to calm down first?”

Scenario 3: Frustration in Public

You’re cut off in traffic. You feel angry and disrespected.

Ask Yourself:

  • Will yelling or reacting change the situation?

  • How can I de-escalate myself right now?

  • Can I say something to myself to shift my focus?

Practice:
 Take 3 deep breaths. Then say out loud or journal:

“I’m safe. I don’t need to let someone else’s actions control how I feel.”

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